John Peter Sloan

Dear John,
My boyfriend still worries about his ex all the time and she calls him constantly, even for the most stupid thing... he says there’s nothing wrong with being friends with an ex. Is it normal that I’m jealous?!
Anna Maria

Of course it is... send yourself a bunch of flowers with the name of your ex on the card... smell them, kiss them... swoon on the bed... the rest will be easy!

Dear John,
One day I was driving to work when my car stopped because it ran out of petrol.
I went home and found my husband in the kitchen with my young, blonde neighbour! They weren’t doing anything in particular, but they looked embarrassed. She had never been in my house before and, when I asked him why she was in the kitchen with him, he said she just wanted some advice about something. I want to believe him, but now I feel insecure about leaving him at home alone! What should I do?
Chiara

First of all, it’s always best to be 100 per cent certain about things before taking action. If I were you, I would take the car to a garage to make sure that it wasn’t the battery that made the car stop. Or, it may be that you need to change the oil! Check this with a mechanic before reaching any conclusions.